Sensual SurrendeR

DIP YOUR TOES INTO
THE WATERS OF LETTING GO

Come flow with me…

Sensual surrender (formerly “sensual domination”) is a nourishing and balancing experience for those who live in masculine, action-oriented/problem-solving energy. This session is perfect for high-powered executives, business-owners, first-responders, single parents, and anyone in a demanding role that requires suppressing feelings in order to get the job done.

If you’re used to forgoing your own needs on behalf of others or have lost connection with your sensual, emotional self for any reason, this experience is for you.

Sometimes, we learn to deny our feminine side as young children, who are not safe to express or feel emotion, whether due to lack of a reliable caregiver or modelling that conveyed vulnerability as weakness, or even dangerous.

Men labeled “toxic” are very often those who carry “mother wounds” and/or experience betrayal and sense of emasculation in (early) romantic relationships. Boys who witness their mothers being abused by their fathers or who had an unavailable or abusive mother are particularly vulnerable to feelings of shame, self-loathing, and contempt in relationship to their own feminine side (emotional self) as well as to women in general.

The denial of one’s tenderness and emotional vulnerability is the root of aggression, need to dominate and control, jealousy, and other “toxic masculine” behaviors largely derived from feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment.

Serious stuff for sure, but the good news is healing our wounded parts is much easier—and loads more fun—than it may seem. Especially when therapy is done in the nude!

When we allow ourselves to express & fully embody our sacred sensuality and receive the touch of a loving and insightful witness, lifetimes of energetic blockages and generational wounds can be released, as if by magic. I’m not kidding.

While I’m a believer in talk therapy when it’s needed, traumatic wounding lives in the physical and energetic body. Affective transformation (as opposed to cognitive) is required to move beyond our experiences that keep us stuck in painful patterns and beliefs about ourselves and others that prohibit real intimacy.

Sensual surrender sessions incorporate all aspects of your Divine Self—body, mind, spirit, and emotions—thus creating space for insight, transformation, and growth.

To be clear, these sessions are not about habitual, mindless reenactment or trauma rehearsal in the context of BDSM “play.”

Our work together during sensual surrender experiences instead invites deliberate exploration of hidden or “shadow” aspects of your sexuality.

Secret fantasies, desires, fears, and needs are illuminated, explored with curiosity, and integrated with compassion.

Self-acceptance, sensual freedom, and flexibility are among the many possible outcomes when we allow our authentic self to be seen through the lens of unconditional love.

Beginning an exploratory journey into the hidden aspects of your sexuality can seem overwhelming at first, but when you put yourself in the hands of a skilled, trustworthy, and creative woman, you’re sure to find your fears were unfounded...and that you’ve been missing out on the most mind-blowing, toe-curling, sexy-as-it-gets type of fun.

  T.N.T. is d-y-na-mite!

Tie & Tease sessions are a wonderful way to experience letting go and surrendering to your body’s sensory responses, with the primary goal being heightened pleasure & discovering your hidden erogenous zones and pleasure points.

Along with the thrill of novelty, the act of submitting to the touch and guidance of another is a healthy way for men to tap into their feminine energy and experience their sensuality and emotions without having to serve or please a partner. For men who occupy stressful leadership and provider roles, finding ways to connect with their feminine energy is vital to maintaining healthy, empowered masculinity.

Learning to receive, let go, and feel the sensations and emotions that arise in the body without having to “do” or “fix” or reciprocate allows us to know ourselves more fully and experience compassion and insight about ingrained patterns and beliefs that ultimately hinder our capacity to fully embody our authentic self and experience intimacy.

During the Tie & Tease session, you’ll be gently restrained with light, Velcro straps and blindfolded. Your body will encounter different levels of sensation: percussive play with different textures and temperature play on different areas of your body, along with the touch my fingertips, lips, tongue, and more... 

If there are particular sensations or activities that you’d like to explore in a Tie & Tease session, please let me know after your screening has been completed.

I would love to make your experience with surrendering, one that leads you to a deeper understanding of yourself and provides you with something fun to take home.

Ready to schedule a play date?

These sessions often require careful planning, clear communication, and adequate time to get to know and trust one another. The most transformative aspect of this kind of exploration is in looking at the beliefs, experiences, and programs that have created a desire for control, habituation, and avoidance of intimacy.

Sensual Surrender Rates

90-min sessions start at $500 and up