Conscious kink…integrating shadow and light…

Sensual surrender experiences were created for those who wish to consciously explore fetishes, kinks, and fantasies through the lens of shadow work. This means we will look at the behavior as an expression of the subconscious and seek to understand the needs being met by a particular kink.

When we intentionally challenge taboos and power dynamics and step out of our habitual way of being, we enter a sacred space in which we can tap into our infinite power to create and transform.

The sexual desires we hold close to our hearts offer a treasure trove of personal data that can show us our unmet needs, direct us to traumatic experiences, and point to imbalance in our self-concept, career, and personal relationships.

When we play out our fantasies consciously, considering equally the “what” as well as the “why,” these experiences offer the potential for profound self-awareness and invite us to step out of habitual ways of being that leave us hungry for authentic self-expression.

Sometimes, we learn to deny as young children, who are not safe to express or feel emotions, whether due to lack of a reliable caregiver or modelling that conveyed vulnerability as weakness or even dangerous.

Men labeled “toxic” are very often those who carry mother wounds and/or experience betrayal and sense of emasculation in (early) romantic relationships. Boys who witness their mothers being abused by their fathers or who had an unavailable or abusive mother are particularly vulnerable to feelings of shame, self-loathing, and contempt in relationship to their own feminine side (emotional self) as well as to women in general.

The denial of one’s tenderness and emotional vulnerability is the root of aggression, need to dominate and control, jealousy, and other “toxic masculine” behaviors largely derived from feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment.

Serious stuff for sure, but the good news is healing our wounded parts is much easier—and loads more fun—than it may seem. Especially when therapy is done in the nude!

When we allow ourselves to express & fully embody our sacred sensuality and receive the touch of a loving and insightful witness, lifetimes of energetic blockages and generational wounds can be released, as if by magic. I’m not kidding.

While I’m a believer in talk therapy when it’s needed, traumatic wounding lives in the physical and energetic body. Energetic transformation and reprogramming of subconscious beliefs are required to move beyond experiences that keep us stuck in painful patterns and beliefs about ourselves and others that prohibit real intimacy.

Sensual surrender sessions incorporate all aspects of your Divine Self—body, mind, and spirit—thus creating space for insight, transformation, and growth.

Our work together during sensual surrender experiences instead invites deliberate exploration of hidden or “shadow” aspects of your sexuality, underlying beliefs, and seeks to resolve such issues to achieve healthy self-esteem and the ability to engage in intimate relationships with transparency and trust.

Secret fantasies, desires, fears, and needs are illuminated, explored with curiosity, and integrated with compassion.

Self-acceptance, sensual freedom, and flexibility are among the many possible outcomes when we allow our authentic self to be seen through the lens of unconditional love.

Beginning an exploratory journey into the hidden aspects of your sexuality can seem overwhelming at first, but when you put yourself in the hands of a skilled, trustworthy, and creative woman, you’re sure to find your fears were unfounded...and that you’ve been missing out on the most mind-blowing, toe-curling, sexy-as-it-gets type of fun.

As of January 1, 2025, All sensual domination sessions are referred to a local provider. Please submit an inquiry if you wish to be screened for a session and referred to Miss Chelsea.

Sensual Surrender Rate

60-min $350 90-min $500