Coaching Now, Clothes Optional

This is not the same practice you may remember.

I’ve left behind the services that once defined my business—and the charming persona I fashioned to survive it. I didn’t stop offering erotic services because they lacked value.

I stopped because I outgrew the version of myself who kept performing them while neglecting herself.

Now, I exclusively work with those who’ve outgrown their own patterns of self-compromise.

The truth?

Giving hand jobs—and sometimes more—to strangers (and even men I’d seen professionally for years)—made me sick.

Sick with shame, sick with grief, and sick of pretending it was okay to give away my most precious assets for free.

They don’t pay us for the emotional labor, the feeling of being violated or “projected onto,” so clients could see in me some shiny version of themselves they lacked.

I got tired of co-signing cheating. Of enabling avoidance and weakness disguised as pleasure. Of absorbing the energy of men who refused to face themselves—men who stalked, disrespected, lied, love-bombed, and used fluffy spiritual language to bypass accountability.

And yes, the love-bombing was the most violent of all. It cloaked dependency in devotion, while revealing a total refusal to self-source identity and personal power.
(I can’t tell you how many “soulmates” and “past-life partners” I’ve had in Southern California.)

That’s not love. That’s a drain.

No amount of money made up for what I was losing every day I stayed after knowing sex work was no longer for me. And while I was paid “well” by industry standards, the truth is: it’s a pittance compared to what it costs to sell access to your soul.

My transition out of sex work wasn’t about other people’s opinions—but tell me, what boardroom, what church, what family gathering really finds sex work acceptable?

This shift is about reclaiming my body, my sexuality, my time, my energy, my health, my dignity, and most of all my freedom. 

Coaching—where the clothes stay on—isn’t a costume change.
It’s a return home to myself, where you are invited to do the same. 

Danielle Delora 2025 isn’t a brand. It’s a framework. A standard. A reclamation. A personal revolution.

Built on trauma-informed strategies, attachment theory, science-backed nervous system regulation tools, spiritual insight, and nearly two decades of working with individuals and couples from across the globe and all walks of life, this work is not here to seduce you.

It’s here to wake you up.

So if you’re looking for sensual massage, that door is closed.

What I offer now is for those ready to confront their patterns—not escape them.