Turn every touch into an act of Love

Touch is a universal human need—essential for connection, healing, and intimacy. But in our hypersexualized yet touch-starved culture, many of us have lost access to the sacred power of intentional, nurturing contact.

From infancy, we know touch as safety, warmth, and bonding. But somewhere along the path to adulthood, we begin to associate physical connection almost exclusively with sex—often bypassing the emotional and energetic intimacy our bodies truly crave.

Sensual massage invites us to remember who we are and to tap into the truth we bury beneath people pleasing and other survival strategies.

In this class, you and your partner will learn how to slow down, tune in, and turn sensual touch into a language of love and conduit for increased self-awareness.

My unique sensual massage technique is an opportunity to learn and practice erotic mindfulness, designed to help you learn to be present through eroticism, emotional intimacy, and honest communication as opposed to sex.

You’ll learn to practice touching your partner without an “agenda”, as so many men, especially, do. In other words, the method of sensual massage I teach is not a tool for performative foreplay —it’s a way to connect more deeply to your own intuition, read your partner’s subtle body-language cues, and co-regulate your nervous system with your partner to build trust and safety physically and emotionally, which is the bedrock of authentic intimacy.

This practice is not about technique alone. It’s about learning to be present, open, and honest in a way that might not feel natural or comfortable, let alone sexy. But it will wake you up and remind you of the true source of your power and how you can use it to disrupt patterns of codependence, unintentional—but nonetheless violating—forms of touch (very common)

My sensual massage classes are about giving and receiving touch without pressure, performance, or goals. Erotic mindfulness is about allowing your body—and your partner’s—to speak, receive, and be heard without controlling or forcing.

You’ll learn to:

• Create emotional and energetic safety through touch

• Awaken and attune to each other’s sensory and emotional cues

• Release stress and resistance stored in the body

• Experience deeper emotional connection and trust

• Nourish the erotic without forcing it

What to expect:
This is a clothed, guided class rooted in nervous system regulation, energy awareness, and intentional touch. Whether you’re new to sensual massage or seeking to expand your toolkit, this is a trauma-informed, emotionally grounded space for true intimacy—not just stimulation.

I will teach you how to listen with your hands, respond with your heart, and meet your partner in the space between sensation and soul.

Because real intimacy begins not with technique, but with presence.

Logistics & What to Expect

These classes are for two people. While often referred to as “couples’ massage,” this isn’t limited to romantic or sexual partners. Friends, lovers, co-parents, creative collaborators — anyone in a trusted partnership is welcome. Same sex partners whether besties or romantic partners included.

What matters most is mutual respect, shared intention, and openness to learning through touch.

Sessions are 2 hours, depending on your goals and comfort level. We’ll begin with a brief consultation to clarify boundaries, intentions, and any concerns. From there, I guide you through step-by-step instruction in giving and receiving sensual, attuned touch in a way that is grounded, safe, and deeply connecting.

Classes take place at my private studio in North County, San Diego (details providing upon booking) or I can travel to your home or hotel if you are visiting San Diego. For travel, a minimum $50 travel fee applies, with additional costs based on distance and time of day.

Cost:
$600 for 2 hours

Please note: This is a class, not a service session. Both participants are actively engaged in learning throughout. I do not offer one-on-one sensual massage.